My neighbors upstairs just love to wake up everyone at 3 in the morning to remind us about their active sex life. RUDE. One day I’ll hit the ceiling with with a broom. Better yet, I should have my boyfriend sleep over and show them what good love making is.
I’m the kind of person who always thought a lot. After or during current events and issues, I’d always connect the dots and find the explanations as to why things have happened or why they are currently happening. If I didn’t find the answer, I would dig deeper and make an answer.
Well now I’ve just about had it. I’m through spending time in my head whenever things go wrong or whenever things don’t turn out the way I expected them to be. I deserve to spend time on myself and to make myself happy. I’m done thinking about people and other things.
Through all this, I’ve learned that I don’t need to find answers to everything. I’ve learned to just let things go and accept them the way they are. They don’t need answers and there are no strings attached so why put effort in things you’re not obligated to?
Every time I find happiness again after picking myself up, I realize the key has always been detachment. When I detach myself from things, I free myself from expectations and obligations. Things flow more freely and naturally. And that’s where accepting things the way they are come in. When I try to find answers, it’s because I care. But if I decide to accept things, that’s when I let go.
Accepting things doesn’t necessarily mean moving on. Although, it could mean absolutely anything. If things are meant to be, it’ll come together all on its own and it can be done without holding on so tight to it. If things aren’t meant to be, it’s unfortunate. But you weren’t attached to it so it wouldn’t take your happiness along with it.
In the end of all this, the key is to be detached, aim for happiness, and live up the moments you’re in. Be free.